Father James Kilzer, OSB, aged 63, entered into his eternal rest on February 7, 2026. Born in 1962, in Elgin, North Dakota, he was the tenth of fourteen children and was given the name Ernest in honor of his Benedictine uncle. Raised on the family farm near Bentley, he attended the small Eagle School #2, where most classmates were siblings or cousins. After high school, he explored studies in chemistry and computer programming, spent time traveling the world with Up with People, and held various sales jobs before pursuing a bachelor’s degree in theology at Franciscan University. Drawn to monastic life, he entered Assumption Abbey in 1989 and received the name James when he professed vows in 1991.
Following his solemn vows in 1994, Father James continued his studies at St. John’s School of Theology and was ordained a priest in 1998. He often remarked that growing up in a large family prepared him for the consideration and self-giving essential to monastic life. His gifts were many: pastoral outreach on weekends, a talent for language, and a generous spirit appreciated by parishioners and fellow monks alike. A determined self-starter, he taught himself whatever skills he needed. Whether refurbishing rooms, crafting candles, or overseeing long-term projects on the Abbey farm, he approached every task with energy, intelligence, and care. He served in the Abbey Business Office for sixteen years and excelled as a carpenter and problem solver.
As director of the Abbey Gift Shop, Father James transformed it with new flooring, shelving, and a renewed sense of welcome. For twenty-two years he also served as oblate director, strengthening and expanding the program with dedication. Even after being diagnosed with cancer in June 2024, he continued to work, reflect, and write. His journal entries, later published as Thoughts on Living with Cancer, became a source of comfort to many. Father James died peacefully on February 7 at the Benedictine Living Community in Dickinson, fortified by the sacraments and surrounded by the hope of the Resurrection.